The Narcissism of Selfies

I think most of us intuitively know that the near obsessive selfie-taking habits of many youngsters today is far from healthy. However, here’s a writer who sums up the problems with it very neatly;

New York Times Blogs – Well – Is Selfie Culture Making Our Kids Selfish?

Dr Michele Borba has just published her 23rd book, this one particularly exploring the unintended aspects of the selfie culture and what it’s doing to children. In this interview promoting the book she makes some excellent points about the impairment of emotional signal reading when children are having an increasing proportion of their human interaction online where they don’t get to see, read and interpret body language and other non-verbal cues.

She highlights the loss of empathy and caring for others when things become ‘all about me’, when narcissism and the desire to be centre of attention is at the forefront of a child’s actions and their thinking.

Finally, she makes a very strong case for emphasizing kindness and, maybe more important – building the child’s belief that – “I’m a kind person.”

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