I’m really sorry to hear that things haven’t all gone smoothly with the transfer from UWCSEA to Shri Ram. A change of country and city can be challenging enough for a child, but the change of school as well can make things feel pretty overwhelming. I even remember for my son and i moving from within South Asia, the Delhi culture took some getting used to!
Beyond this, I wouldn’t really like to comment, especially not being aware of what discussions you’ve been able to have with the school management about how your daughter gets to settle in and find her space.
As for the British School, I’m afraid i also can’t comment too much. I have known past Heads there, but don’t know anyone in the current management team. It has always been a school which sets itself high standards and has a considerable track record behind it.
I wish i could have given you something more concrete, but do wish you and your daughter all the best as you figure out the best way forward for her education, growth and development.